Online Classes Fatigue: How to avoid it for our kids

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No one has ever thought that one full year would be eaten away by the pandemic and our living style would undergo drastic changes. But that has become the reality and as a part of this new reality, education has taken a different route and altogether unbelievable route if I have to say. Online classes have become the new normal. Even when the world is opening up slowly everywhere, schools are yet to open up, and internally we parents also feel vulnerable in sending the kids out to the school. So we prefer online classes to traditional schools. But have we ever considered that Online Classes are affecting our kids in more than one way, apart from the regular tiredness in attending schools? This syndrome is called Online Classes Fatigue. WHO and UNICEF are already forewarning us about the TWINDEMIC we all would be facing this year. TWINDEMIC is nothing but having two pandemics in the same year. The two pandemics WHO is referring to are COVID-19 and the Mental Health Issues the world is facing due to COVID-19.

Children are more social beings when compared to adults. They learn a lot only from the peers and they are missing all that fun and learning during their growing up years. If this Online schooling continues, for another year, then our kids would not only forget the basics of social interaction, but also many of the physical outdoor games.

Online Classes Fatigue for kids. Is it really a myth or reality from mommyshravmusings under Mental Health for Kids

A recent study by Gallup has pointed out that 33% of the parents have realized that their kid’s emotional and mental health has taken a toll in the US due to the Online Classes fatigue. Though this study is primarily conducted in the US, the results would be the same everywhere too. The earlier we realize the need to address the emotional needs of our kids, the better it would be for them in the longer run.

Results of Online Classes Fatigue

Being a single child, I could see the marked difference in my kid immediately. Even though I try to act like his friend and keep playing with him, that would be for a limited time only. I will have the other hats to don and house/work to manage. So, I can’t spend all my waking hours just playing with him, isn’t it?

The more he started spending time alone, the more he is getting attached to the gadgets instead of books. He used to read a lot during his free time prior to the pandemic and now that’s not the case. The more he is spending time with gadgets, the more changes I am able to observe in him and it’s a vicious circle to break. I could see him developing unnecessary fears, becoming more and more hyper-energetic as he was not able to exert his excess physical energy. So we joined him in the online gymnastics classes.

Though the online gymnastics classes are draining him of his physical energy, his intellectual hunger wasn’t getting satisfied. So it resulted in another myriad set of problems. He also started experiencing the online classes fatigue. He stopped doing his assignments and started losing interest in his studies slowly and stopped turning back his assignments. We initially thought that the problem is with our child, but when we spoke to our other parent friends, we realized that this is the universal problem. Even the kids in the traditional schools are not completing their assignments or finishing their exams. So, this is a universal problem everywhere.

Solution to the Online Classes Fatigue:

So, then what is the solution? We are currently in a unique situation, the kids are not able to see how their peers are spending time at their house. They are not able to gain inspiration or learn from their peer group. These kids don’t have live role models to emulate during this lockdown. Though teachers across the world are working hard to provide the kids not just education through online classes, but also a platform for them to interact with their peers digitally. These digital interactions are not providing enough comfort or security to the kids. All they get to see are their parents, who are always busy working. They are not getting a clear sense of what the future is all about. And they don’t want to become like their parents working busily all the time. And that’s impacting them adversely on the studies front.

7 Tips that have worked for me inorder to avoid the Online Classes Fatigue in Kids from #Mommyshravmusings in Mental Health of Kids

So what can parents do in this situation so that the emotional health of their kids is not affected badly? This is what we are doing at home which I thought would share with you all:

  • Try building our kid’s resilience by reading various positive stories of role models navigating through difficult times.
  • Spend time reading stories with them
  • Increase their interaction time with the extended family members (especially the grandparent’s generation). Hearing about our family history and struggles that their generation has faced will build resilience in our kids.
  • Try doing some physical exercise or play a game together in the limited time available as a family, which would increase the positive hormones in every member of the family.
  • Making them self-accountable to small and definitive tasks would help in building their confidence levels.
  • Limit the exposure to gadgets without adult supervision. We can use these gadgets to create a positive impression and provide them different experiential learning to the kids.
  • Let the child embrace mindfulness in all the activities he does so that the kid can really start to take a notice of the beauty around him and appreciate it more.

The first thing we did is to cancel most of the online classes for my kid. We are only attending school and his dance classes through zoom. That has given little flexibility to my child. Next is we removed the tab and mobile from his reach and made sure that he watches it for a limited time of 15 minutes a day. We started getting him connected more to his grandparents and nature. So slowly, we are getting our carefree and happy child back. It’s still a long way to go, but now we know that we are on the right track.

It’s crystal clear that the Online classes fatigue is affecting our kids very badly. And it’s the time when the schools and parents should concentrate and work hand-in-hand about the psychological issues affecting our kids. Studies can take a back seat, but the emotional health of our kids is more important as we don’t want our kids to get converted into anxious, self-doubting, socially incapable adults. The government, schools, and parents should take the onus on them and address these psychological issues in our children at the earliest.

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45 Comments

Satabdi · February 8, 2021 at 6:58 pm

Limiting exposure to gadgets and reading stories are things we’re doing at home, too. I can confirm that it really helps!

    mommyshravmusings · February 9, 2021 at 9:48 am

    True Satabdi. That was the first step we took, limiting the exposure of gadgets. Reading stories is anyways a continuous activity in my house. As he is little more matured now, we started sharing family history by showing albums so that he will understand the struggles all of us have gone through to reach this stage.

Alpana Deo · February 8, 2021 at 11:17 pm

Thats a much needed topic at this hour. Online classes have shown its effects on kids. They need a break from gadgets and the best way to do that is purring down on other online activities.

    mommyshravmusings · February 9, 2021 at 9:49 am

    Yes Alpana, cutting down their gadget time and next is to equally appease their intellectual hunger needs with creative stories or story telling worked for me.

Harjeet Kaur · February 9, 2021 at 9:18 pm

Online classes are taking their toll on kids. You have shared great tips to reduce the fatigue. They need to detox from gadgets for sure.

Mayuri6 · February 9, 2021 at 10:50 pm

Online Classes sounded very convenient when they started, but parents and children alike are facing the fatigue caused by them now.
Your tips come from experience and anyone who follows them will surely benefit.

Archana · February 11, 2021 at 10:03 am

As a parent I can feel it. Our kids are doing online studies from almost 1 year. It has impacted our kid’s social behavior, EQ and IQ too. In the initial days things were quite interesting but now kids are losing the fun from their favorite subjects due to monotony of schedule. The pointers you have shared to remove the fatigues are so right and useful.

    mommyshravmusings · February 12, 2021 at 6:54 pm

    Thank you Archana. You are right that the kids are ones who are most hit due to the online classes.

Metamorphosis · February 11, 2021 at 8:08 pm

I agree online classes are taking toll on kids health. Your pointer are really helpful, most of them are very practical and I am really happy that I am following them as well.

Monidipa Dutta · February 11, 2021 at 8:08 pm

I am an educator too so even I can tell you, you are right. We are facing this fatigues and almost every other day, one student’s parent or other complain to me about it!

    mommyshravmusings · February 12, 2021 at 6:53 pm

    True Monidipa. Parents are able to observe these changes and are bit worried about the outcomes too.

Sadvika Kylash · February 12, 2021 at 6:21 am

Love your lists. As you said every parent is facing these issues with their kids. And I am too.
Would keep these points. Hope to give kids a better change.

    mommyshravmusings · February 12, 2021 at 6:52 pm

    Very true Sadvika. Lets hope atleast these kids would get to attend to the school next academic year at least without any issues.

Vasumathi · February 12, 2021 at 2:10 pm

Very well articulated post about the fatigue that kids face. Iam a teacher to college kids and I see a marked dip in attendance & performance this semester as compared to the last one. I think this digital boom has had a negative impact. Now everything under the sun is available as an “online course”. Some of them aren’t even structured properly and have so much wrong info. And initially during the lockdown period I think most parents went overboard and signed up for so many classes to keep the kids occupied that the kids didn’t have time to do all the kiddy stuff. Imagine 5 year old being signed up for coding and robotics! High time we checked ourselves and not screw up our kids.

    mommyshravmusings · February 12, 2021 at 6:52 pm

    Thank you Vasumathi. Infact after seeing all these changes in Shrav, I started digging deep and checking with other parents, before coming to the conclusion.

Shahira · February 12, 2021 at 6:03 pm

Yes we try to incorporate exercise time , reading time and free play time to the day! online classes for a year has taken the toll on its students.

    mommyshravmusings · February 12, 2021 at 6:51 pm

    True Shahira. That’s why, we as parents should take the necessary corrective actions now.

      shail · February 13, 2021 at 1:26 pm

      Kids are easily distracted during online classes you have covered it very well. They are fatigued easily and keeping them engrossed is becoming a difficult task for parents. You have covered the issue and the solution very well.

      mommyshravmusings · February 13, 2021 at 2:31 pm

      Thank you for dropping by

Supriti Garg · February 12, 2021 at 9:03 pm

Initially my 5 year old adapted really well. But gradually this fatigue started kicking in and he go cranky and irritated all the time. That’s when I realised that online classes is taking a toll on his emotional well being. As suggested by you, exercising and playing together helped us a lot. As the online classes are a new normal, this is a really handy guide for parents.

    mommyshravmusings · February 13, 2021 at 2:34 pm

    Thank you Supriti. Yes playing together always helps the kids to destress.

Priyanka Chhabria · February 13, 2021 at 8:36 am

Thankfully Aarav was 2 when all this started and we skipped the whole online learning part. He is 3 now and we are hoping for physical schools to start. Kids have been on most difficult end this whole year. The tips you mentioned are really helpful.

    mommyshravmusings · February 13, 2021 at 2:32 pm

    That’s so wonderful to hear that you opted out of the online classes for Aarav. Wise decision indeed. Thank you for dropping by

Priyanka Nair · February 13, 2021 at 10:43 am

You have covered it so well Suhasini, it has been a tough year for children and the tips you have mentioned works well if we support them as much as we can. Thanks for the post 🙂

Abha Singh · February 14, 2021 at 10:50 am

Wonderful article. I totally agree that kids emotional and mental health is more important than studies. Great tips shared by you in this post to engage kids.

Madhu Bindra · February 14, 2021 at 4:12 pm

Online classes were needed during the lockdown, but they have their own disadvantages. It is more difficult with smaller children. You have shared some great tips. Limiting exposure to gadgets really helps.

Aishwarya Verma · February 14, 2021 at 5:29 pm

I agree 100% to what you have mentioned!! Time for parents to ponder on how well can the time be utilized for grooming

Ritu · February 14, 2021 at 6:11 pm

Children have struggled the most during lockdown. And online classes fatigue is just the tip of the iceberg. You have shared some excellent tips that would help all the parents out there.

    mommyshravmusings · February 15, 2021 at 2:58 pm

    Thank you Ritu. Yeah, I am planning to cover other aspects in which I encountered problems during this lockdown in my #MentalHealth for Kids series.

Bhawna Shah · February 14, 2021 at 6:34 pm

All kids are now the victims of internet, they are addicted of gadgets and well said, they don’t want to read from books. My son is also search for videos where he gets the full explanation of the chapter. I am totally agreed with all your points.

momcaptureslife · February 14, 2021 at 8:26 pm

Totally agree with you . Online classes have shown its effects on kids. They need a break from gadgets and the best way to do that is cutting down on other online activities and work on offline .

    mommyshravmusings · February 15, 2021 at 2:57 pm

    Very true. That’s why we do mostly offline activities these days.

Aishwarya Sandeep · February 14, 2021 at 10:19 pm

A lot of children are facing this online classes fatigue including my own kid. I started involving him in my chores. Taught him to chop vegetables, so that he can help me and also learn something new. A lot of students, who used to write well, stopped writing. Teachers, parents everyone is trying hard to make things normal but still, ther eis only so much that we can do. I also encouraged him to talk through the window with his friends. so that is kid of time pass for him.

Amritha Srinath · February 14, 2021 at 11:28 pm

Online classes have been very tiring for children these days. Initially, my son used to be very interested in meeting his friends and teachers virtually, but as the months progressed, I can see his interest withdrawn. And it is not only his case, but also many children who do not get engaged enough anymore. You have shared some practical solutions which would help parents the kids with online classes fatigue.

Ruchiraa Sharma · February 15, 2021 at 12:22 am

This is a very real issue which all of us are facing currently. Children are spending most of the time with a gadget. I will try these tips as it pains me to see little undereye circles around my son’s eyes.

    mommyshravmusings · February 15, 2021 at 2:57 pm

    Yes Ruchiraa, I can totally relate to your pain and that’s when I started digging in deeper and talked to the Child psychologists to come to this conclusion.

Sindhu Vinod Narayan · February 15, 2021 at 12:41 am

Totally agree on this. Thankfully my daughter loves spending time with my parents and also both of us do some activity together that keeps her cheerful

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